What is the definition of a man that isn't (****)?

Most people. Well most girls consistently always adds a few cents on how they feel about a man who ain't ****. But they never specifically detail how the man isn't ****. Personally i want to know what type of man it is just to make sure i dont become it. Can a holy man be not ****? Can a person who worships god whole heartedly and stays away from worldly things be not ****? That's my question for the day.